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DriedBlood
msg #31
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I’m not saying that all ’Emos’ cut, but half of them seem to think that self harming is that. Emo is a trend, ffs.
Weel dont do it.
But sometimes I feel like people don’t take their own lives for granted, it’s downright pathetic sometimes. People think their lives suck when a few things go wrong, but for christs sake, billions of people would go though alot worse.
People shouldn’t cut, because it dosn’t help, it’s commen sence to know that!
Do people actually think that it’s alright to cut? Because it’s 100% not right. People are all: "It’s a way to cope!" WHAT?! Making yourself bleed? why dont people do something nice or usefull to calm down? Poetry, artwork, songs, music? Theres hundreds of ways of calming down and coping, and the top of them is Talking about it, because their ’problems’ wont go away if they cut themselves.
It’s supid, selfish and dosn’t help in any way possible, end of. |
kim.a
msg #32
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Driedblood;;
I do admit it doesn’t solve your problems, but like you i selfharm/selfharmed, and it affected most things, more arguements, parents avioding me or taking me everywhere being threatened to be taken into a mental insitute and almost my parents splitting.
I’ve tried talking about it, it doesn’t work, i mean how the hell can talking out your problems help? it just leaves you open to more hurt in my opinion.
Don’t you think that MOST selfharmers have tried over ways to get out of selfharm? i mean i know i have and the only one that seems to help is Cutting.
because you take out your anger on yourself, you take your emotions...your wrong doings out on your own body, because you think you deserve it,
like i said cutting is like a release it’s a beautiful sensation that seems to make nothing else happen.
again sorry just personal opinions. |
DriedBlood
msg #33
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Talking abour problems decreacess stress and pressure, it sure made me feel a helf of alot better.
I’m not directing this at ALL selfharmers, this is the:" LOOK AT ME IM SO DEPRESSED I CUT MYSELF LOOK AT IT 8D" Kids. But in the end, their just emotions, and they go away! It’s not a beautifull sensation, it’s a pathetic, selfish, stupid thing to do. As I said, people can let their ’anger’ out on something else. Music, poetry, lyrics, art...Self harm is fucking stupid! You can get ill from doing it, and plus when people find out; the self harmer dosn’t like it. So why do they do it?! Do people ever stop and think about what their doing nowdays? |
mcrfreak78
msg #34
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dude i havent been on here and so long. anyways.
i actually think its whiny.....and i apsolutly HATE RAZORS |
kim.a
msg #35
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Yeah, that’s the case with some people, not everyone with me personally it builds me up and gets me even more upset, that’s why i try to keep myself to myself.
Most selfharmers don’t do it for that, they trry to hide it with there life, it’s there own little secert.
And tbvh Driedblood how can you say all this when you once turned to it? I find that slightly hypocritical..?
Sometimes over things don’t work, sometimes that seems the only way, i know your going say will that’s pathetic and not the way...but sometimes it feels like that.
Look selfharming is a personal decission like smoking,drinking,drugs and sexuality. Well you can’t exactly control everyones lifes and say if it’s wrong or not beause certain points of everything are bad, and certain points of everything are good, i don’t see why everyone always has to look at it on a downside,
i see it just as falling off a skateboard and hurting yourself? |
DriedBlood
msg #36
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I can say this because I know what I’m talking about because I once did it, obviously.
The only way? Are people that dim and narrow minded now days? I think self harming is discusting, I know it’s not gonna stop anyone, but they need to see how pathetic it is, because it just is!
Falling off a skatebord? So now falling off a skatebord is a suicide risk? |
<Nami>
msg #37
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ive had problems with my bro beating me up & my uncle always annoying me.
Did i selfharm? No.
anyways Mia, you words (of wisdom!!) are just going through one ear and comming out the other without sinking into the brain of these people.
We should leave it, because.. well idk how to put why to leave it into words without being insulting... they’re just never gonna listen.
never gonna learn.
WHAT AM I DOING ON MY BRAND NEW LAPTOP AT 3AM?!?! |
Demolition_Lover.
msg #38
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dude. forget what i said earlier. unless you’re doing it for keeps, no i dont. |
kim.a
msg #39
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I can see what your saying, i mean i guess it’s personal opinion, and it’s your choice, i mean you can’t force people to stop or anything but you can try and help them,
It’s pathetic to judge people on it though right?
It won’t help you with anything, but when your addicted it feels like the only thing, and i know it’s not but it’s hard to explain?..=/.
When people are selfharming they basically think of the world of it...it’s pretty daft? |
DriedBlood
msg #40
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Can you explain your last sentance a little?
I don’t judge people though it, all I am saying is that it is stupid, silly and downright pathetic.
Addition? I don’t really think so, people can get out of addictions, ya know? |
kim.a
msg #41
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What i meant by the last sentence is well when people are selfharming they get very pretective of it, like it’s they’re child. They somehow completely rely on it. If you get me?
That’s fair enough then.
Yeah, but addictions are very hard to get out of. It’d take a long time to do so? |
DriedBlood
msg #42
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Rely on cutting themselves? Sometimes life is just shit, I know. But relying on cutting yourself? wow, thats low.
I know addictions arehard to get out of, but people manage it when they use something called willpower. Their possibly not even trying. |
<3MCR
msg #43
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dried blood. SHUT THE FUCK UP. youre saying the same exact thing, over and over and over again. stop. we have much better arguments and points than you. you sound like a health teacher and its rlly getting on my nerves. i think kim.a has an EXTREMELY good way of putting things. its like the way i feel but she found a way to put it in words! |
DriedBlood
msg #44
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I can’t ’shut the fuck up’ over the internet, I never spoke.
I repeat myself because it’s logical, proove that you have a better argument than me, Proove that cutting is such a ’becautifull and emotional’ thing and NOT a suicide risk. It dosn’t matter how she puts it down, because in the end all self harming is: Is a suicide risk, and very pathetic.
SOMEONE PLEASE THINK OF A LOGICAL REASON WHY PEOPLE SHOULD SELF HARM? ¬____¬ (And don’t give me the ’It’s a way to express peoples emotions’ bullshit) |
spike
msg #45
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well maybe there is no reason...
i mean, self harmers harm themselves for different reasons. some cause of bullyin, abuse or traumatic events. others cause they are not happy with themselves n they think this is what they deserve.
DriedBlood you seem like a wise person but i think what you are askin is kinda impossible, every time someone self harms its for a different reason n maybe im wrong but thats how i see it... |
spike
msg #46
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by reason i mean logical fyi |
DriedBlood
msg #47
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I understand, and thenks for not shouting lots of verbal abuse at me :D
But in the end, self harming always ends up badly, and in cases, death. What hurts the people around that person. So, it dosn’t help at all, if anything: It makes it worse. |
spike
msg #48
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...its just one of those things yknow... |
<Nami>
msg #49
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and i almost did it... |
<3MCR
msg #50
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... sorry for snapping at you i was just reading the whole conversation and remembering past times youve shared your opinion on teh topic of self harm. i can easily prove (with 1 o) that its not a suicide risk. i dont do it because i want to die, i do it because i want to feel... as long as you are careful your not gonna die. |
DriedBlood
msg #51
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It is a suicide risk, it’s cutting too deep, hittng the vein, bursting it and dieing of blood loss. It happens, even when people are ’carefull’ |
<Nami>
msg #52
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helena is playing on TV and im blasting it. |
<Nami>
msg #53
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that has nthing to do with cutting |
<3MCR
msg #54
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driedblood, i forget, have you ever cut? |
DriedBlood
msg #55
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Yup, I did once, thats why I know what I’m talking about. |
<3MCR
msg #56
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and you rlly think you could of died? what did you use? |
<Nami>
msg #57
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you can die. from blood loss. |
mcrISlife<3<3
msg #58
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ok. why is everyone always talking about emo ppl and cutting on this forum?!
is it THAT important to all of you!?
yeah, im emo.
and yeah, i KNOW its selfish.
but everyone needs to back off and leave us alone.
bc im not gonna take anymore bullshit about emos.
you wanna say something about us, fine, but dont go and talk TO us about what u have to say!
its fuckin ridiculous how we have to live
just bc u all have something against us.
WE CUT FOR REASONS!
and if you had my problems, you’d go straight to the gun, not kill urself slowly from bloodloss |
#1MCRFANx33
msg #59
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okay I say we stop with this topic...whose w/ me!!! XD |
<Nami>
msg #60
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MEEEEEEEEEEEE!
PEEEEEEEEEEEE!
MIIIIIIIIIIIA!
i was the first one to ask ppl to stop this topic because it was from 2007 and they all go and say "oh ignore this, you dont understand, your so mean" |
